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The Tenors (Canadian quartet) are in hot water after changing the national anthem during ?#?MLB? all-star game, singing, “we are all brothers and sisters, all lives matter…”. The traditional lyric is “With glowing hearts we see thee rise. The True North strong and free”. It didn’t take long for the group to issue a formal apology.

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Jennifer Aniston would like to make one thing very clear, she is NOT pregnant. In an open essay to the Huffington Post she writes:

“For the record, I am not pregnant. What I am is fed up. I’m fed up with the sport-like scrutiny and body shaming that occurs daily under the guise of “journalism,” the “First Amendment” and “celebrity news.”

The 47 year old actress says, women “are complete with or without a mate, with or without a child. We get to decide for ourselves what is beautiful when it comes to our bodies.”
When it comes to pregnancy rumors, speculation follows Aniston everywhere. Most recently, in June – when Aniston was photographed in her bikini by paparazzi during her vacation in the Bahamas with husband Justin Theroux. Tabloid pictures surfaced, claiming Aniston had a pregnancy “bump” in the pictures, which were taken of her in a bikini. A spokesperson for Aniston denied the rumors, saying. “What you see is her having just enjoyed a delicious big lunch and her feeling safe on private property”.

Full essay:

Let me start by saying that addressing gossip is something I have never done.  I don’t like to give energy to the business of lies, but I wanted to participate in a larger conversation that has already begun and needs to continue. Since I’m not on social media, I decided to put my thoughts here in writing.

For the record, I am not pregnant. What I am is fed up. I’m fed up with the sport-like scrutiny and body shaming that occurs daily under the guise of “journalism,” the “First Amendment” and “celebrity news.”

Every day my husband and I are harassed by dozens of aggressive photographers staked outside our home who will go to shocking lengths to obtain any kind of photo, even if it means endangering us or the unlucky pedestrians who happen to be nearby. But setting aside the public safety aspect, I want to focus on the bigger picture of what this insane tabloid ritual represents to all of us.

If I am some kind of symbol to some people out there, then clearly I am an example of the lens through which we, as a society, view our mothers, daughters, sisters, wives, female friends and colleagues. The objectification and scrutiny we put women through is absurd and disturbing. The way I am portrayed by the media is simply a reflection of how we see and portray women in general, measured against some warped standard of beauty. Sometimes cultural standards just need a different perspective so we can see them for what they really are — a collective acceptance… a subconscious agreement. We are in charge of our agreement. Little girls everywhere are absorbing our agreement, passive or otherwise. And it begins early. The message that girls are not pretty unless they’re incredibly thin, that they’re not worthy of our attention unless they look like a supermodel or an actress on the cover of a magazine is something we’re all willingly buying into. This conditioning is something girls then carry into womanhood. We use celebrity “news” to perpetuate this dehumanizing view of females, focused solely on one’s physical appearance, which tabloids turn into a sporting event of speculation. Is she pregnant? Is she eating too much? Has she let herself go? Is her marriage on the rocks because the camera detects some physical “imperfection”?

The objectification and scrutiny we put women through is absurd and disturbing.

I used to tell myself that tabloids were like comic books, not to be taken seriously, just a soap opera for people to follow when they need a distraction. But I really can’t tell myself that anymore because the reality is the stalking and objectification I’ve experienced first-hand, going on decades now, reflects the warped way we calculate a woman’s worth.

This past month in particular has illuminated for me how much we define a woman’s value based on her marital and maternal status. The sheer amount of resources being spent right now by press trying to simply uncover whether or not I am pregnant (for the bajillionth time… but who’s counting) points to the perpetuation of this notion that women are somehow incomplete, unsuccessful, or unhappy if they’re not married with children. In this last boring news cycle about my personal life there have been mass shootings, wildfires, major decisions by the Supreme Court, an upcoming election, and any number of more newsworthy issues that “journalists” could dedicate their resources towards.

Here’s where I come out on this topic: we are complete with or without a mate, with or without a child. We get to decide for ourselves what is beautiful when it comes to our bodies. That decision is ours and ours alone. Let’s make that decision for ourselves and for the young women in this world who look to us as examples. Let’s make that decision consciously, outside of the tabloid noise. We don’t need to be married or mothers to be complete. We get to determine our own “happily ever after” for ourselves.

We are complete with or without a mate, with or without a child. We get to decide for ourselves what is beautiful when it comes to our bodies.

I have grown tired of being part of this narrative. Yes, I may become a mother some day, and since I’m laying it all out there, if I ever do, I will be the first to let you know. But I’m not in pursuit of motherhood because I feel incomplete in some way, as our celebrity news culture would lead us all to believe. I resent being made to feel “less than” because my body is changing and/or I had a burger for lunch and was photographed from a weird angle and therefore deemed one of two things: “pregnant” or “fat.” Not to mention the painful awkwardness that comes with being congratulated by friends, coworkers and strangers alike on one’s fictional pregnancy (often a dozen times in a single day).

From years of experience, I’ve learned tabloid practices, however dangerous, will not change, at least not any time soon. What can change is our awareness and reaction to the toxic messages buried within these seemingly harmless stories served up as truth and shaping our ideas of who we are. We get to decide how much we buy into what’s being served up, and maybe some day the tabloids will be forced to see the world through a different, more humanized lens because consumers have just stopped buying the bullshit.

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Taylor Swift may have recently followed new boyfriend Tom Hiddleston to Australia so she could be by his side while he shoots Thor: Ragnarok, but the pop star still found a great way to spend her time Down Under while he’s on set. E! News reports that earlier today, Swift paid a visit to Lady Cliento’s Children’s Hostpial in South Brisbane to visit with the facility’s young patients. “Thank you Taylor Swift for dropping by the Lady Cliento Children’s Hospital today for a surprise visit,” the hospital tweeted along with a pic of Swift and a patient. On Facebook, a nurse also wrote, “Just your average Tuesday at work when Taylor Swift calls in.”

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Two months after announcing that she was leaving husband of 34 years Ozzy Osbourne due to his alleged affair with an L.A. hairdresser, Sharon Osbourne has reportedly experienced a change of heart. “They’ve fallen in love again,” a source tells Us Weekly, noting that couples’ therapy helped foster their reconciliation. When Ozzy’s cheating first came to light in May, another insider said, “He’ll go to any lengths necessary to repair the damage. He wants his family back.” Sharon had also discussed their separation on a May episode of The Talk, where she confessed, “I can’t keep living like this.” Guess you really can!

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